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When the Identity You Assumed Can No Longer Hold You
There’s the you that you are…and the you that you had to become to make it this far. The second one — the assumed identity — is a quiet masterpiece of survival. It works. For a long time, it works. People applaud it. They reward it. They trust it. You trust it too — because…
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How to Prevent Memory Erosion in this Digi-AI Era
In 2019, J.I. Baker wrote an article called “The Digital-Era Brain.” At the time, the big concern was distraction. Our devices were stealing attention, shrinking focus, and making it harder for us to remember anything for more than a minute. The data felt alarming: But tucked into the article was the real warning: we were…
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What You’re Pretending Not to Notice Is Still Running Your Business & Life
Most people think their biggest barriers are external: Difficult people, slow systems, economic pressure, unpredictable environments. But far more often, the real barrier is internal: the things they’re pretending not to notice. Avoidance looks passive, but it isn’t. Avoidance is an active choice—one that silently hands authority over to patterns, habits, and dynamics we’ve stopped…
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How to Master the Leadership Skills, AI will Never Replace
My friend Julie Winkle Giulioni recently recommended an MIT Sloan Management Review article which made a striking observation: AI has democratized knowledge so completely that “expertise” can no longer be defined by who has the answers. Because now? Everyone has the answers. The article argues that the true value of leadership is shifting — away…
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When Your Flaw Becomes the Frame
Sunny is one of those shows that sounds chaotic when summarised but unfolds with a surprising confidence. Rashida Jones plays Suzie Sakamoto, a grieving woman in near-future Japan who’s paired with a homebot her husband secretly built before he and their son disappeared. What follows is a slow-burn blend of grief, mystery, sci-fi, and dark…
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The Hidden Story Behind How we Think
I’ve always paid attention to the way we try to explain thinking… how we map it, categorise it, make it teachable. I came across a framework recently that grouped thinking into four modalities — critical, systems, strategic, design. It’s tidy. It’s appealing. It’s simple and makes what could be an extremely complicated topic…palatable. And yet……
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Who are you beneath the Résumé?
The return to the self you never actually lost. We talk about identity as if it’s something we build over time, you know, like a staircase made of accomplishments, roles, promotions, and the stories other people tell about us. But identity doesn’t accumulate. It gets covered. Over a lifetime of performing, achieving, leading, and holding…
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What Happens When Performance Replaces Authenticity
Somewhere along the way, many of us learn to trade truth for approval. Not because we’re weak. Not because we’re manipulative. But because we’re human – wired to belong, wired to need safety, wired to be understood. So we adjust. We soften our voice. We amplify certain traits. We mute others. We hide the parts…

