Today is my birthday. I generally don’t make a big deal about my birthday. I usually don’t make elaborate plans, I have no must-do’s on my list. I wake up into the day and live.
Today is not necessarily different to what I’ve just described, except for two gifts I received from The Daily Stoic and The Daily Om.
The Daily Stoic’s message said –
Happy Birthday! You’re one year closer to death.
The gift was a percentage off of a medallion created with the words MEMENTO MORI – a reminder to focus, prioritize and never take a minute for granted.
The phrase is Latin, Memento Mori, reminding us that we have to die, however the awareness is not to bring sadness but to arouse more purposeful living.
Marcus Aurelius wrote that “You could leave life right now.”
Ryan Holiday encourage that we should let this determine what we do and say and think. The Stoics believed that thought of our mortality should shadow us everywhere. It should give you a sense of urgency and priority, help you cut out the inessential, inform how you treat other people, and let yourself be treated. The medallion is the reminder that we can carry with us everywhere we go.
The Daily Om’s gift showed a different perspective
Your birthday marks more than just another calendar day. It’s your personal new year, a sacred time to celebrate how far you’ve come, honor what’s ready to be released, and lovingly welcome the dreams and blessings waiting to enter your life.
I accept both gifts and the messages accompanying them, understanding that I have two choices:
I can choose to keep going exactly as I have…or be a little more honest about what’s working, what isn’t, what I’m tolerating, and what I keep postponing.
So for me, today isn’t about making it special. It’s about not missing what it’s pointing to.
Time is moving… whether I make a big deal about it or not. And if I’m going to take anything from today, it’s that I don’t need a dramatic plan… but I do need to be clearer about how I’m using what I still have.
Strategic Reflection Prompt
Where are you treating time like it’s unlimited… and what would you change if you were honest about what it’s actually costing you?
I’m Giselle Hudson, The Pre-Fixer™.
For nearly three decades, I’ve worked with business owners and leaders across the Caribbean who carry important decisions largely on their own, often when problems keep returning, solutions fall short, or implementation stalls.
When I ask business owners what problem they can’t seem to solve, the answer is usually “people.” So I ask them to tell me more, because people and businesses are rarely as simple as they first appear.
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