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Some Things Are Worth Rushing. Others Should Move Caterpillar Slow
I was watching Landman. If you haven’t seen it, it’s a grounded, character-driven series set in the oil fields of West Texas. Less spectacle, more consequence. A show about work, power, family, and the long shadows decisions cast over time. The drama doesn’t come from twists. It comes from what people live with. In one…
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You Must Make Room First…If You Want to Grow
I’ve come to understand that decluttering a home and pruning a plant are guided by the same underlying principle: growth doesn’t begin with adding more, it begins with removing what no longer supports life. This is something I’ve returned to many times over the years, not as a lifestyle philosophy or a reset ritual, but…
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Funerals Collapse the Illusion of Later
The finality of a funeral service always acts as a stark reminder of mortality, shattering the human tendency to live as though death is a distant, abstract possibility. The physical reality of the body and the formal ceremony make the loss undeniable, forcing every one in attendance, out of denial or shock and into an…
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When the Identity You Assumed Can No Longer Hold You
There’s the you that you are…and the you that you had to become to make it this far. The second one — the assumed identity — is a quiet masterpiece of survival. It works. For a long time, it works. People applaud it. They reward it. They trust it. You trust it too — because…
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AI Does Not Elevate Thinking. It Meets You at Your Level of Input.
Over the last few days, I’ve been sitting with two ideas: From MIT Sloan: knowledge is now democratized, and judgment—not information—is the real differentiator. From J.I. Baker: our brains have shifted from remembering information to remembering where it’s stored. And today, both of these collide into a third truth: AI will not lift the quality…
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How to Prevent Memory Erosion in this Digi-AI Era
In 2019, J.I. Baker wrote an article called “The Digital-Era Brain.” At the time, the big concern was distraction. Our devices were stealing attention, shrinking focus, and making it harder for us to remember anything for more than a minute. The data felt alarming: But tucked into the article was the real warning: we were…
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What You’re Pretending Not to Notice Is Still Running Your Business & Life
Most people think their biggest barriers are external: Difficult people, slow systems, economic pressure, unpredictable environments. But far more often, the real barrier is internal: the things they’re pretending not to notice. Avoidance looks passive, but it isn’t. Avoidance is an active choice—one that silently hands authority over to patterns, habits, and dynamics we’ve stopped…
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How to Master the Leadership Skills, AI will Never Replace
My friend Julie Winkle Giulioni recently recommended an MIT Sloan Management Review article which made a striking observation: AI has democratized knowledge so completely that “expertise” can no longer be defined by who has the answers. Because now? Everyone has the answers. The article argues that the true value of leadership is shifting — away…

