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How Do You Design Your Day?
Most people design their day around habits they’ve been told are “good.” Be disciplined about all of it! And when it doesn’t work, they assume the problem is them. But what if the issue isn’t discipline at all? What if it’s design? Over time, I’ve learned that people don’t fail at productivity. They fail at…
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What You’re Pretending Not to Notice Is Still Running Your Business & Life
Most people think their biggest barriers are external: Difficult people, slow systems, economic pressure, unpredictable environments. But far more often, the real barrier is internal: the things they’re pretending not to notice. Avoidance looks passive, but it isn’t. Avoidance is an active choice—one that silently hands authority over to patterns, habits, and dynamics we’ve stopped…
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Can you rely on the business you’ve built?
You’ve probably seen that old team-building exercise — where one person stands with their back to the team. They are told to fall backwards and trust that their team will catch them. It’s an exercise in trust. Can you do that with your business? Can you lean back, take your foot off the gas for…
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Simple concepts worth remembering
About two days ago, I was thinking about which book I had in my possession, that I could use to accompany me on this leg of my journey. My thoughts were intercepted by a call from a friend who was thinking about using property, that has been in her family for generations, as a place…
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How do we escape what we’ve been told and taught, sold and bought?
I was leaning into a recurring feeling today. It’s a regular visitor this feeling…and it’s never good. It surfaces thoughts of unworthiness and inadequacy; feeling less than and incapable. And then it occurred to me that this feeling is in fact a habit. It arrives right on time, almost every day, just before I start…
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does this behavior help me become the type of person I wish to be?
“Quality questions create a quality life. Successful people ask better questions, and as a result, they get better answers.” – Tony Robbins Ask better questions, get better answers. How we behave counts. It doesn’t matter our intentions. Our actions move the needle. Wallace Wattles tells us in the Science of Being Rich: You can never…
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Why discipline is not sustainable, and habits are your friend
Are you getting your to-do’s done? Or are you mired in minutiae? Do you have a growing secondary list where things never seem to come off it, and more is being added on? We think we need discipline to stick with programs, lose weight etc. But we need habit. A habit is wired into your…
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Carrying a Joke too Far?
There is a thin line between “getting kicks” and reality. While the ability to laugh at ourselves is a good thing, I feel that we have taken this joke a little too far. Some may argue that it’s true. The question is: Do we want it to REMAIN true for us? If we are thinking…

