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Compromise is NEVER a Viable Strategy
I recently read a headline about the Grammys and by the end I was questioning my own habits of compromise. For sixty-eight years, the award for Album of the Year had never gone to a Spanish-language record. Not once. Then a man who once packed groceries in a small Puerto Rican supermarket ended the streak…
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Are You Addicted to Work?
I’ve always been curious about addiction. The way I tend to look at most things in my life, I’ve wondered why some people get so deeply hooked… whether it’s food, alcohol, drugs, gambling, hoarding, smoking, or porn. What is it that pulls someone past moderation and into dependency? Over the years, that curiosity hasn’t been…
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What is the Cost of Amplifying BEFORE Clarifying?
Jean-Claude Van Damme is often remembered for the spectacle. The splits. The spinning kicks. The impossible balance held between two moving objects as if gravity had signed a non-interference agreement. But that image hides the real story. Van Damme did not rise because he was reckless. He rose because he was disciplined. Years of martial…
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You Must Make Room First…If You Want to Grow
I’ve come to understand that decluttering a home and pruning a plant are guided by the same underlying principle: growth doesn’t begin with adding more, it begins with removing what no longer supports life. This is something I’ve returned to many times over the years, not as a lifestyle philosophy or a reset ritual, but…
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Change won’t happen if you don’t take responsibility for the process
Every day, people declare, “I want change.” More money. More clarity. More alignment. Better relationships. Better leadership. A deeper life. But the older I get, the clearer this becomes: Wanting change is a fantasy. Taking responsibility is the the only place true transformation can take root. The wanting feels good…that glint of hope. You get…
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Can you rely on the business you’ve built?
You’ve probably seen that old team-building exercise — where one person stands with their back to the team. They are told to fall backwards and trust that their team will catch them. It’s an exercise in trust. Can you do that with your business? Can you lean back, take your foot off the gas for…
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Curiosity and asking “What if…”
Just completed “The Book of Ichigo Ichie” – The Art of Making the Most of Every Moment, the Japanese Way by Hector Garcia and Francesc Miralles (bestselling authors of IKIGAI) This is not a summary but an invitation to invoke some magic into your life by asking this simple question – “What if…” So many…
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Be heard AND seen…
If you don’t stand for something, you’ll tolerate everything. Think of those times when you have deferred to others who were louder, appeared more ‘in the know’ than you. Perhaps you’ve encountered a bully or three, who wouldn’t even let you speak – your point of view lost in their bravado. Yet it is important…
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Stay true to the voice within
What are the questions you ask yourself as you pursue or are in the process of building and growing your business? Are you wondering whether what you’re doing will make you rich? What are the choices you make regarding your marketing and promotions? Is it based on how many potential likes you’ll get? Are you…
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Your Work Is Meant to Be Enjoyable for You and Helpful to Others
The idea that we can’t have the job we truly want, let alone experience joy while doing it, runs rampant in our world. We subject ourselves to unhealthy working conditions for eight plus hours a day at the end of which we feel tired. Not fulfilled…not feeling as if we’ve contributed or made a real…
Clarity BEFORE Execution. Structure BEFORE Speed
High-stakes decisions deserve disciplined thinking
You don’t need to move faster.
You need to reduce unnecessary risk.
When your decision affects income, reputation, or stability,
pause with structure before you act.
Giselle Hudson | Pre-Decision Advisory for Leaders Under Pressure 