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What Prevents Culture from Quietly Decaying?
A dying culture invariably exhibits personal rudeness. Bad manners. Lack of consideration for others in minor matters… A loss of politeness, of gentle manners, is more significant than is a riot. ROBERTH HEINLEIN When Robert wrote this, I don’t think he was romanticizing politeness for politeness’ sake. He was describing something much more insidious —…
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How to Reclaim your Muchness
You used to be much muchier. You’ve lost your muchness. I came across this quote recently where the person posting said that every time she feels the need to apologize for being too much, she remembers that this is what the Mad Hatter told Alice. I naturally assumed it belonged to Lewis Carroll’s 19th-century Alice’s…
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When Words Start Wars
Orem, Utah, September 10, 2025: Charlie Kirk, the 31-year-old founder of Turning Point USA, was midway through a “Prove Me Wrong” campus debate when a single rifle shot ended his life. The scene—open-air forum, microphones humming, thousands of students—could hardly have been more emblematic of his chosen medium. Only weeks earlier he’d said, “When people…
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Don’t Confuse Manufactured Moments with Real Leadership
Politicians run for office with rallies, giveaways, and promises that make crowds cheer. But after the election? The T-shirts fade, the food is gone, and the grand vision often collapses under the weight of reality. Too many businesses are doing the exact same thing. 1. The Hype vs. The Work 2. Promises vs. Delivery 3.…
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The Danger of Labeling too soon
What sparked this reflection was a graphic I saw: “7 Signs You’re Dealing with an Inauthentic Person.” The list was absolute: if someone shows these traits, they’re inauthentic. Full stop. I think this is misleading. Human behavior is more nuanced. When we latch onto a label too quickly, we risk being myopic — zooming in…
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Why My Approach Sidesteps the Pitfalls That Sink Transformations
When I walk into a business that’s about to make a big shift, I’m not thinking about pretty organizational charts nor catchy slogans. I’m thinking about the human and structural realities that will make or break what’s about to happen. Too many transformations fail — not because people weren’t working hard, but because no one…
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Edge Leadership Series Reflection: Scaling Starts with Belief
Last evening, I attended the Edge Leadership Series under the theme “From Local to Global: The Blueprint for Scaling.” The keynote was delivered by the electrifying Vusi Thembekwayo, elite coach and founder of the School of Scale, and followed by a powerhouse panel featuring: As I sat there listening, one insight underscored everything: Scaling isn’t…
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The Hidden Costs of “I’ll do it” Leadership
Every time a leader says “I’ll just do it,” a little bit of clarity, trust, and team momentum quietly slips away. The Upper Limit Problem, a concept introduced by Gay Hendricks, refers to a subconscious self-sabotaging behavior that occurs when individuals approach a level of success, happiness, or abundance that exceeds their comfort zone. This often leads…
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Naked Honesty
a.k.a the BARE truth Just started reading The Culture Game by Dan Mezic. Rob Richman gives an intro. Loved how he explained what happens when we are more committed to staying as we are versus making THE CHANGE: “My favorite book on personal organization is Getting Things Done by David Allen. And let me tell…

